"We can be together without sleeping together, for as long as you need" is right there.
It's there, yes, but it makes no real difference to choose it. There's no sleeping together until the graveyard scene either way. And if you reject his advances at the graveyard he gets a bit disappointed.
What I want is an asexual route where there's emotional intimacy rather than physical. And I think Astarion is a great companion for this.
Also "For as long as YOU need" says Tav will be waiting for him until HE's ready. I want a scenario where Tav isn't just waiting for Astarion to "get back to normal". I want a relationship where the relationship success isn't based on them sleeping together. Normalize being ace too, and let Tav be ace/demi and find a partner without the pressure of sex.
