It's such a missed opportunity. We have several characters in the party (potentially) starting their recovery from abuse, sexual or otherwise, and here comes this wise, strong, reliable, respected leader who - we could've slowly found out - was also a victim of abuse, and is also on the road to recovery, though much further down that road. He could've been a symbol of healing and hope and a source of advice from someone who's already gone through what they're going through. But no. Instead it's all sex jokes and meme fodder.
