I made a feedback post on discord regarding this topic. I know not everyone agrees with the shar/selunite option. It's not that selunites would be necessarily against casual sex, it's more about SH's state of mind depending on which path she takes. It's no secret that shar SH is more confident than the selunite one, given the story direction and implications.

I also noted a more general option to be able to discuss boundaries and consent with SH.

If you agree, and have discord, please upvote. It's titled Shadowheart no Halsin. Thank you.