Is it me who didnt get that? Like i didnt spoke Halsin a lot in my monogamus run. He didnt said anything about having feelings for me. Then SH didnt said anything about him. Saw sand banter and said yeah dream on old man. Afterwards thats that. There was only me and her.
In my tiefling sorcerer girl run ive had romance with SH and Halsin said he has feelings for me. I told to Sh and she said shes fine with it and wants to hear about it later. So i brought her to drows so shed enjoy him as well. After that sand banter was funny because he was like daddy bear for us. It was good to explore SH's fantasies that way.
Long storys short SH will be whoever you want her to be. She will keep her fantasies to herself if you dont go into flings. game is not complex enough to understand relationships especially when drows involved. It still thinks you gonna share SH even you dont intended to. Drows are the key. Monogamus users stay away from them :p
Yes, just stay away from content. With your logic we should get big warning board around Halsin that says: "DONT TALK TO THIS MAN IF YOU ARE DOING MONOGAMOUS RUN". Also at sharess caress I guess/
And I agree that she is supposed to be flexible, but also game should respect player's choice and deciding factor should be not a drow convo, but Halsin himself should be changed to respect player's choice.
Remember that this guy proposes himself even at 0 approval(I am pretty sure he does this anyway at negative approval) regardless if you are in romance with him or not, which is terrible.
As you described it is actually what you suppose to think when you do poly run and pretty much everyone is ok with that.
And not taking Halsin around is a poor excuse for mono run.
"Game recognizes either you poly or mono at drow convo" also makes 0 sense, because its unrelated(Idk where you took this idea even). Its like saying: "Well you pet Scratch, game recognizes you as a dog person now".
FIX.HALSIN.