That bears a question (get it ? xD ) Why are you speaking and showing interest on brothel workers if youre not planning to share ? Secondly why youre bringing Halsin? I dont need to talk to brothel workers unless i plan to share. I dont need to bring Halsin because i already have another Druid with me. Refusing Halsin will only close his romance path. But game will stil take him as potiental fling opportunity. When you bring both of them there itll make game think youre already into it because why else youve brought Halsin with you?( hes only character that programmed to be poly) If hes not there game will go on as 2v2 . but if hes there game will take it as youre leading them. If you reject there youll get disapprove because now your leading turned to turning cold at last minute.
Just a reminder that you can chose "nevermind, I've changed my mind" at the room with drows and you wont get hit by any disapprovals(not Shadowheart, not Astarion) if its 2v2. What if he is member of my party? Why not kill him on the spot then or beat him into leaving your camp? Its just workaround for a huge problem. What if I want just 2v2 with my romance partner with drows? Again, its none of his business UNLESS my character in romance with him aswell. Dont you really see a problem here? Sure if my character is in romance with Shadowheart and Halsin, declining him in drow convo would make me a dick and disapproval makes sense. However if my character is not in romance with Halsin and only in romance with Shadowheart - its none of business what we do. It makes him "terrible person" for just that banter and "squeeze in" attempt in drow foursome. Its the same shit as if withers would propose himself.