I don't know I've never fully romanced anyone besides SH. Like I start a new game with the intention of branching out just to see, but then SH looks at me once and I'm right back in her clutches lmfao
But yeah, I agree a follow up chat would work too. I think she would give you another chance but definitely not let you get off lightly. The way they have her now is basically just waving it away, as if it doesn't matter, no consequences and it feels very unrealistic.