Just wanted to say I totally agree that I wish there was an ace/demi option for the start of the romance like a certain origin character can have. It was difficult to headcanon myself into making my character ready to jump into bed with him (though she is a Durge so I figured with her memory issues she just thought "this is something I must do, right? . . . maybe not").
I don't really see Astarion as ace, but a more ace/demi-friendly romance with him or anyone would have been nice.
