You know, I found that the people who would defend Shadowheart and Halsin's behavior to the death are people with a certain fetish, people who let horniness cloud all forms of logic, or the people who think that "straight men should have a taste of their own medicine" (don't ask me how people came to that conclusion).
That alone is messed up (and vindictive) as it is, but add on the fact that this affects lesbians too (which deal with unwanted advances from men often) that whole point of view is so toxic.
I've also recently had arguments with ppl about the importance of consent and boundaries, in which their replies were basically "Its a video game" "who cares" and "people can change their minds" etc.
I was also recently called a "bearphobe" despite never mentioning anything about the bear scene or bears at all. So I guess we're just making up words now lol