You conveniently left out the incredibly suggestive "Now there's an idea..." she also says when the twins suggest it without you ever asking them for sex. I hope you realize that in a situation where your love interest pushes for a night of pleasure with prostitutes (no matter how out of character it is for her to do so), some people will feel pressured into accepting. The rest of the dialogue is unavoidable the second you do and as I said in the post above, is grounds for divorce/separation and people have quit the game over it.
Sure, she says "Now there's an idea..." upon hearing drows proposal. All that means is that she says her opinion on the matter before you say yours. It's a discussion. She isn't pushing and if you refuse she won't disapprove (like I said disapproval over Halsin specifically was a bad call from the devs).
Originally Posted by Michieltjuhh
But the disapproval isn't the only problem. It's what she says before that already.
Forgot about that. But then again at this point player indicates some level of comfort with sharing. And while yes, it is an uncomfortable thought that your romantic partner sometimes may think of someone else, there is no indication that Shadowheart is going to act on it. If player doesn't say they are comfortable sharing, she will keep her thoughts to herself to not compromise what you two have.
I'm not saying that her change of stance on open reltaionships makes sense or I am opposed to Larian making changes discussed here. I am saying that you shouldn't allow it ruin your experience.
Originally Posted by Michieltjuhh
With the exception of the suggestive banter. It happens the day after your intimate night together (sure, it can happen later if you don't bring Halsin until then, but it's coded to happen straight after).
Sure, but this game already treats time passing and distance travelled very unrealistically. It certainly wouldn't be bad if it was coded to be 3 long rests after or something like that (or removed, again I'm not consdering this banter essential to the game)