I came to thread in state of confusion - "why has this thread gotten so long".
It would probably behoove you to read the entire thread.
I read the entire Halsin thread before I made my first post in it on page like, 47 or something, so I knew what was going on and what people were talking about.
It seems to me that you feel the need to defend the poly thing in game because you feel you need to defend yourself in real life as a poly person.