You know my position already, right? We've already discussed our differing views on the wine scene and you know I think SH wants a nesting partner so I've answered that question repeatedly. In your view SH is mono in chapers 1-2, in my view we get some foreshadowing / hints that she's open to sharing in the wine scene and that her desire to be first in Tav's heart is not a desire to be monogamous.

I know we are going to disagree but haven't we progressed past the point where you would need to ask me that?