Larian fixed Gale's part but forgot about Wyll's. That's why I remember Jacob.
You absolutely have the right to be reminded of anyone when thinking about anything. That said, you are causing me psychic damage every time you post comparing Wyll to Jacob. Please, have mercy!

My deepest apologies! As a survivor of many long forum battles regarding romances (and let's not touch endings here) in ME, I fully understand and even share that flavour of PTSD.
Unfortunately, going that far (to the kiss) currently ends one or more of the other romances, even if you break it off afterwards, due to a bug. Oops.
Please, tell me my rejection of Wyll at the final point ("Turn your head away") did not break up my romance with Astarion! I am not that far after the scene and would rather reload than progress with the dead romance.