Aye don't worry, I understood what you meant. And I agree, they could've put a little less emphasis on who he bedded. Though since it's sort of necessary for his story right now, it could've simply been more diverse like you asked for, to avoid the need for that much suspension of disbelief if you roleplay a female character.

I'm a female and I've never played a male except for the Witcher

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But, yes, a diversity (seems to be a very popular word nowadays) that is exactly what I want. Would it kill them to write one of those poor wretches from Astarions past to be a female?