I think they didn't put much thought into female players in general - Astarion's mentioned problems plus him ending, Halsin having a lousy romance... and we only have 4 options
We have 9 options? Where did you get the 4 options? Everyone has 9 options. And it is nowhere stated that you have to choose your romance after your real life perference. I choose mine with the story in mind. I'm lesbian irl, but my DUrge Suri is romancing Astarion, because storywise he just makes so much sense for a good, resisting Durge.
