Thanks, now I can’t unsee that and you’ve ruined my Jackie Collins fantasy

Seriously though, it’s a good perspective. I am not sure I agree with the idea that just because an option is there in a dialogue tree or elsewhere that all the options convey something about my character. The only portrayal of my character that I take from any dialogue or other choice is the one I actually made, all the others are for some other completely different character. I don’t have the issue that I think my character was thinking of, or considering, having sex with another character just because the option occurred. Some other Tav in a different multiverse was thinking about it, but not my Tav.
I don’t have to play the game like I am in the Faerûn version of grindr if I don’t want to. But I appreciate that some reviewers put some focus on the issue that the hype around the romances and sex isn’t always what it is cranked up to be.