Like for some damn reason on all my runs I got that stupid Wyll dance even though my character romanced Astarion, seeing Wyll's hurt puppy eyes when you deny him hurts.
I start mashing the right mouse button the moment I choose that dialogue option. Or just kiss him and then tell Astarion that you choose him over Wyll. For some reason The Blade takes being rejected this way much better lol. I have a feeling something is wrong with Wyll's flags too. It would make more sense for tbe dance to only happen if you flirted with him at the party, and/or told him you want to see a demonstration when he talks about dancing.
Overall I agree with everyone that the game lacks friendship, with and between the companions. And the romances lack actual romance.