I am not sure I agree with the idea that just because an option is there in a dialogue tree or elsewhere that all the options convey something about my character. The only portrayal of my character that I take from any dialogue or other choice is the one I actually made, all the others are for some other completely different character. I don’t have the issue that I think my character was thinking of, or considering, having sex with another character just because the option occurred. Some other Tav in a different multiverse was thinking about it, but not my Tav.
Agree! I like when there are a variety of dialogue options and don’t think of it as my Tav thinking every single option, only the one I pick.
Instead my main issue with the male romances in BG3 is that I have a hard time seeing my character agreeing to start a relationship with any of them (Gale is staring at the head of his ex at the start of his first romance scene, Halsin starts his romance by saying he doesn’t do relationships, etc.). I haven’t had this issue before with other games I have played that have romances.