not talking about queer relationships, at all. There are many discord servers with players wanting to have the "toggle sex on off" option. Straight, queer, etc. They are complaining about dialogs forcing sexual innuendos instead of friendships like "real life" does
The only thing, I have seen - and which I would prefer - is that relationships or sexual affairs are only activated, when the pc makes the first move, which is already the case with Shadowheart and Astarion and which imo works very well.
