Yeah, to me these were also moments when I lost immersion.
For every other dialogue in the game, I had an option to behave like an ass, be neutral/grey or play a good guy/be supportive. And yet here every option for ascendant feels bad/negative and there's no way to refuse the spawn. For ascendant, your Tav only wanted to make a transaction(to become a vampire/have sex) or they are mad at the change they helped to make a few minutes earlier. And similarly for the spawn, Tav can't change mind/continue to be an ass.
Narrowing dialogue options (in their tone) kinda breaks role playing and immersion to me. If I should feel bad/good about something, it's better to kill me with consequences of my actions. (There are so many good moments already in this game, when I felt like crap/satisfied after some choice, and it was just because the game gave me that choice and successfully showed me something AFTER the choice was made. Not because it was showing me the right way by dialogue options.)