My only complain with sex scenes is that they put waaay too much effort on the gay stuff to the point that there are more cool option for gay men than straight men and I absolutely doubt that enough gay men play the game to justify screwing your straight audience over them.

Other than that sex sells, always did always will and I don’t mint it in my games . I was very disappointed with games like the Fallout series that when you make an effort to have a romantic partner all you can do is lie next to them then it’s black screen and nothing … at least in BG3 you get some more graphical approach and it’s fun because it’s not a generic on scene for all, different companions prefer different things in sex so their scenes are somewhat way to show some more from their personalities.

So anyways I do think the game is sexualized, wouldn’t call it over-sexualized because as a straight man , the only sexual scenes I have seen and ever was interested in are Minthara and Shadowheart and none of the others, I have zero interest in gay content or freaky alien sec with green alien woman etc.