I wonder who these hardcore RPG gamers are, if they find the small amount of sex in this game disturbing. (Sex which you can entirely ignore if you want to) I don't think they care much for the heroic fantasy genre on which their games are based.
Let's have a look at Conan the Barbarian, which was orignally a series of 5 short stories written by Robert E. Howard. Below are the covers of the magazines where they were published. Sex and Heroic Fantasy/Sword and sorcery has always gone together. Even in the old myths on which the fantasy genre is based is it omnipresentr.
If Larian had really planned to cater for gamers looking for sex visuals and scenes, they did a poor job.
No one said 'sex exists' was disturbing. You made that up. Fact of the matter is sex in games is like salt. Sure, it can spice things up. Used poorly, then at best it covers subpar cooking with salt or makes the entire dish unpalatable. You know how much sense it DOESN'T make to have to sleep with Astarion in order to tell him he needs friends? If you can't or won't understand the thread.
Show us on the doll where the US puritan touched you.