Menopause made me asexual, so it all just kind of grates on me these days. I still very much appreciate romance, though.
However, I've been playing computer RPGs since the late 1990's and even then sex wasn't a drawing point for me unless the characters were very, very well developed. (No pun intended.) In the old BG games it was just theatre of the mind, and it didn't take away anything from the story. And I remember Mass Effect getting some real flack for it, but I feel that those scenes are extremely well done and well deserved in that game.
I mean, Larian brags about "show, not tell" and yet these are some of the most graphic sex scenes in any game. And the development of deep friendships is ignored in favor of the sex, which is very disappointing.