And the fact that Selune did not stop the kidnapping is not what I am discussing. The point is the ritual itself, not the fact that in this specific instance Shar got involved.
And yes, as I’ve previously mentioned, it would seem likely that Selune would watch over the kids and make sure they were safe. It’s just that all the talk of “self reliance” and “being left to fend for yourself “ seem to contradict that idea to some extent