Well... I just tested it and although it's better, it's still not the old scene. The length of the scene is restored as well as the hip movement, but the angle is still showing only the upper body. Previously it was a full body shot with a candle in the spicy parts.
What bugs me too is that the options to tell him to be gentle or to make it hurt still show up way too early than they should. Previously they would emerge when Astarion was straddling Tav, since patch 4 however they're there as soon as he starts moving towards Tav, while they're on their knees.
Ugh… well, I’ll take what I can get at this point, anything over that stupid candle