And I'm not saying he shouldn't be like this, it makes sense for him. But he clearly really wants to deal with the goblins, so being able to talk with him about it would also make sense. And give him content.
Astarion's having the time of his life being able to express his opinion without earning himself days of torture.
And they really could be two sides of a coin. One is selfish and seeks to survive, the other is technically heroic and puts others above himself, but the game won't let them clash because it doesn't do relationships between companions.
There should be more doialogue options for the companions in general and between the companions. At least I can somewhat let Astarion know, that I looked through his insincere seduction attempt , if I make the insight check. Stuff like that we need more often.
And yeah, I don't mean, we shouldn't be able to tell Wyll, how we want to deal with the goblins, just that it makes sense, that he is head on in. I would also like for example to tell Astarion to stfu when deling with Yurgir and trying to get him to kill himself , while Astarion stands in the background and whines the whole time, because he thinks, I would let Yurgirs live.
I think, it is handled well with LAe'zel in the gith creche, where you can tell her to not be too trustful and pointing at the different encounters (patrol, doctor etc.) we had. And you even get approval for that.
