Is jarring enough that I can't think of any other part-based RPG where it was this blatant - and certainly not in baldur's gate or icewind dale etc.
Icewind Dale is a Black Isle Studios Game, not a Bioware game though. The only thing "Bioware" in there is the engine they had borrowed. Everything else was supposed to be a dungeon crawl, like the good ol' days. The good ol' days before anything "romance" became a feature ticked off a list of features.
(Don't care about keeping everybody happy in my playthrough though. This isn't some kind of minigame to keep everybody happy.)