I know you can die by failing rolls to stop Astarion from draining you. However, the game also provides two options that amount to “let him keep going” that also result in your character’s death.
I really do think the game could distinguish a bit between these two paths. Since in one you really are letting him kill you, so being indignant about it is a little hypocritical. “Really, darling? You seemed perfectly happy to die in my arms last night. Funny how I don’t remember you asking me to stop.”
To be fair, not asking him to stop does not give him a carte blanche to kill you, so I don't think the game needs to distinguish between the two paths (though it'd be perfectly in character for him to cast the blame on you). He told you beforehand that it'd "only be a taste". The character was just stupid enough to trust the hungry vampire.
Originally Posted by t1mekill3r
Would make more sense if the option itself was "lean into him", not just do nothing. Because now you have no idea that this is what your character will do when you pick that the first time. (Especially with a Durge you can have other reasons)
Agree, that would make it much clearer. But then people would whine again about the sexual undertones in case they just want to be nice and feed him out of friendship reasons...