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IMO, it is very obvious. Gays are considered ‘alien’ to straights, and The Emperor is a literal alien who wants to be ‘accepted’ and tries to sexually proposition you. I don’t believe a metaphor could in fact be any more on the nose.
Yeah, I get that, but what does that mean? He invites you to sex. So, do I 'accept' him by banging him? So, I have to act gay to accept gay?


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Not my experience, and I’m 39, very built and all the attention I get from how I physically look is from gay men. .


Yes, it's the guys that hunt. You have to go after the girls, they're not coming for you. Guys hunt girls, guys hunt guys. Second.... Please don't tell me you go *out* looking for a date. Those days are long gone, man.

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Women require the usual strategies of ‘making an effort’, chitchat, dates etc.

Yeah, hence; "talk about cats and zodiac signs" - But don't wait too long and tell them what you want to do with them, or you're wasting everyone's time.

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That’s fantasy. Are you saying the women you’ve ever met don’t prefer fantasising over actual acting on the fantasy? They rarely if ever act on it.

No, not really. Ever heard of the 'nice guys finish last' thing? It's a real thing. Women that keep ending up with abusive partners? It's a real thing. Because it's attractive. I don't like it anymore than you do, but it's reality.

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We seem to agree on one thing then

Party at my house. Bring dip.

Last edited by rodeolifant; 16/12/23 07:25 PM.

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