Yeah, I get that, but what does that mean? He invites you to sex. So, do I 'accept' him by banging him? So, I have to act gay to accept gay?
Seems to be what the writers are aiming for. You ‘accept’ the otherness of gayness – as a straight – by ‘looking passed’ The Emperor’s octopus freak-show appearance. Gays are not ‘freak-shows’, but they are men. Had many conversations with friends re: this – in other words, straight men view other men as they view themselves: simply repellent.
You should know what I’m talking about. How many times have I heard ‘how do women even go through with this (straight sex)’?
Yes, it's the guys that hunt. You have to go after the girls, they're not coming for you. Guys hunt girls, guys hunt guys.
Exactly, so you just confirmed what I stated: women are from Venus, men are from Mars.
Second.... Please don't tell me you go *out* looking for a date. Those days are long gone, man.
Did they ever exist? If we’re to nitpick, I was referring to Tinder and co. for the ‘dates’.
But don't wait too long and tell them what you want to do with them, or you're wasting everyone's time.
Exactly! These are the laws of the jungle! So you’re again backing up my statement that women are from Venus, men are from Mars.
No, not really. Ever heard of the 'nice guys finish last' thing? It's a real thing. Women that keep ending up with abusive partners? It's a real thing. Because it's attractive. I don't like it anymore than you do, but it's reality.
Correct, but that has nothing do with the point I was making… Which is that women have unique self-restraint versus men around what they consider ‘attractive’. It’s virtually unheard of that women are ‘horndogs’, but men are the complete opposite.
Party at my house. Bring dip.
Party at
my house skip. The lads were egging me on to buy a proper table for the new gaff I bought, poker chips and deck of cards… I caved and spent all my Dec wages on the whole lot. You’re very welcome! I couldn’t afford chairs, but the lads are apparently sorting something out...