OP, I feel like all of the stuff about gay men trying to grab you and hitting on you, reinforcing the false stereotype that gay men are sexually promiscuous, is sullying any other potentially valid points that you have. You may just want to take that stuff out of there?
The above dude rodeolifant clarified it very well – all men are ‘sexually promiscuous’. Doesn’t matter whether gay or straight, because it’s programmed into the gender of the animal to ‘hunt’.
So gay men and straight men are equivalent here.
What I pointed out is that straight women are not receptive to ‘sexual promiscuity’ – they’re repelled by it.
But gay men are in a unique position: both are men. As in, they don’t have to deal with this ‘safety switch’ that nature programmed into women. They both equally think like hunters.
My experience is just that: I’m stating what I’ve experienced. Have any gay men tried to ‘proposition’ me in the way I ‘proposition’ women?
No.
I never stated this as some kind of ‘gay anomaly’, or 'wrongness'. The fact is gay men are used to less work when it comes to same-sex partners. That, IMO, bleeds into their flirtations with straight men that they find attractive: as in, they’re used to receptive men ‘vibbing’ with the directness.
If I could have the same experience with straight women, my sexual partner list would be in the 1000s. But straight women are simply repelled by the directness I’m talking about.
