I've been ranting to my friends about her state for quite some time now. It's a wonder that they don't tire of it, to be honest.
Here's to hoping that I won't have to rant about it for forever and the fact that we have the weird good recruitment (it seems to be so finicky to pull off that I'm fairly certain it's bugged) somehow gets more eyes on her and leads to her bugs finally getting addressed.

It just still bothers me a lot - so we either have to use mods to try and experience things, or we just go through this hell again and again just to keep submitting bug reports that only yield a generic response, if at all.
Never mind the fact that the workarounds with mods I've seen are more or less wonky, too - some people using a polyamory mod, just to make some things work, others using one that allows you to manually set things or trigger dialogues via a debug tool, its all not very appealing to me.

Sometimes I wonder if someone at Larian just deliberately keeps her bugged out of spite or antipathy. I jest, of course.