As to the original post: You would have to really convince me that there is a better game out there. ... I think this is not just the best CRPG game but the best game of all time.
If you feel that this is the best CRPG of all time, then I doubt that I could convince you otherwise...
and that's great for you. My experience with Baldur's Gate 3 has been at times terrible and typically a mixed bag. This includes the writing; hence this topic that has now gathered 5 pages of fairly consistent feedback. It's valid to point out plot holes, ill-conceived story arcs or simple mistakes in the narrative, and this title is not immune.
As a brief aside, I do want to point out that most of the people posting here are doing so because they
care and have invested their time, attention and - for some - even emotions into an experience that wound up falling short. It's not a great feeling. Hashing out what we think went wrong can be both valid criticism for the developer and therapeutic for the disappointed.