What are 'normal' rpg's? If you'd ask me, I'd say that D&D is the standard from which others derived.
Every rpg that doesn't use turn-based combat. When i need to slaughter a tribe of goblins i want to do it in one sweep, without switching turns. I played Grim Dawn, Path of exile, Diablo 3, and so on, that playstyle i liked more.
Don't get me wrong ; i REALLY like BG3, but the tbc turns me of; a bit