It's clearly depicted in an ending where Durge breaks up with him, where as spawn he's fearful and holds a knife behind his back when talking to Durge, while as Ascendant he is perfectly calm and knows he'd immediately destroy them if they tried anything funny.
What's this now? Never saw the knife one.
Originally Posted by Ametris
Ascendant actually admits to being lonely so I think he's better off staying with Tav (who completes him as he admits himself).
Left alone this man would become a boss fight in BG4.