Yes, great points, thanks for enlightening me as to how this thing goes with Astarion because I’ve never seen that myself. But that does all sound so incredibly icky. Like your partner has PTSD, and you’re so busy with your orgy that you don’t notice that they aren’t feeling comfortable/dissociating. It reflects really poorly on the player character. Then, like you said, the whole thing about suggesting that it’s okay to open the relationship (or maybe if you follow that to its logical conclusion, cheat) If there’s been a dry spell… it’s just so incredibly icky and toxic. You’re right. Like why not focus on satisfying conclusions for actual romances instead of devoting effort to this?