Let's not invite the same old arguments that got the Shadowheart thread locked by trying to dictate the preferences of a character that is inconsistent about the subject exactly because she was written and designed to be either based on individual player choice and interpretation. By all means vent the frustration (again and again, apparently), just maybe remember to be tactful about throwing around things like calling a character mentally ill over it. Hardly any different from the people that refer to her in other derogatory ways because options they don't have to interact with happen to exist for players who are not themselves.