Originally Posted by Sobocles
For me, the Selunite Shadowheart scene is one of the most beautiful I've seen in a video game. I didn’t even see it as lewd or an explicit sex scene (more explicit are the scenes of Minthara, Lae'zel, even Karlach). The Shadowheart scene seems more romantic (like Astarion's), she even tells you to turn around so she can undress, like wtf??

I'm not against Selunite Shadowheart joining the infamous brothel scene. In fact, there are two interactions with her that I actually like:

The first is when she refuses to participate in the brothel, which is when Tav hasn't slept with her.
The second is when she agrees and tells you, "If you're comfortable sharing, so am I."
Everything gets ruined again when Halsin enters. If Shadowheart had said something like, "I don’t mind Halsin joining us, as long as you're not against it," to me, this dialogue, THIS INSIGNIFICANT DIALOGUE, would have solved 95% of the problem.

I'm no expert in poly relationships, I don't like them and I won't pretend to understand them, but as far as I know, aren’t these relationships supposed to involve mutual agreement from all parties? But when you put disapproval from Shadowheart, Astarion, and Halsin when you refuse, doesn’t that go against all this?
Yes, Selune Shadowheart brothel reaction is fine to me when Halsin is not around.
I just kinda do not understand why Shar Shadowheart and Selune Shadowheart have almost identical reactions to all these "adventures"? We know that Shar SH ends up being "short amusement" or "fling" and she knows this, so she shouldn't feel threatened in all of these scenarios. It makes sense.

But Selune Shadowheart? She generally has low self esteem and tries to stick to Tav(and basically relies on Tav), shouldn't she be more threatened by these scenraios and be more sensitive? How does she know that Tav won't dump her and stick with Halsin(you literally can tell her that there is no place in relationship for her when you talk to her about Halsin and she just says that she is flexible and will manage, what the hell?)? Shouldn't it be like Spawn/Ascendant Astarion ascendant difference?