At least Lae'zel is clear and direct about it. In the case of other companions I initially went along the romance path unknowingly and unwittingly, thinking that they are just being friendly.
How do you guys go along with the romance unknowingly and unwittingly?
I got hit on by every character at this point, and they are all very clear about what they want and there is a clear way to turn them down and stay friends.
