With Shadowheart since you know what will happen, don’t spend the night with her. If you don’t like it, don’t do it.
I prefer to spend the night with her and then disappoint her a little in the end because it gives me a private but not romantic moment with her. If you play as an Origin it is also a chance to talk about your character's life a little - though she clearly isn't prepared for the trauma dump she gets from some people *coughs*. I rather wouldn't have to disappoint her romantic expectations, but that's the way it is. She has her expectations of sharing a bottle/ connecting with each other, my character might have different intentions. What I was disagreeing on is that the scene or the dialogue to initiate it is obviously romantic in nature, it's open to interpretation (though when you initiate it before the party the romantic nature is emphasised) but that's ok. There isn't really any harm done.
