Also during the Dark Urge run, even Scleritis (the butler) states you don't want him for sex or just his looks. And you have the option to explain all this to him, before asking for his help to stop you from killing him due to your "father's" wishes. I made the roll & passed. He knew exactly what I thought, allowed him to make all his own choices, and didn't push him one way or another. I play both sides of him, I have both spawn & ascended. But the toxicity that you stated, never came through in my game. AT ALL.