In case I wasn't clear, I don't have a problem with the game allowing the player to do evil stuff, so long as it is framed as evil. Coercing Astarion into sex in act 2 is framed as a horrifying violation, and he will break up with the player over it. There are no consequences to the brothel stuff with Gale. SOME people consider it funny, because the projection is typically really funny. Not being able to tell if sexual coercion is being treated as coercion or is treated as a joke is my main problem. Halsin happily participating after Gale's "if we must" line makes me think it wasn't intended to be coercive, because he is framed as good aligned.