I'd like to chime in as well and just say that I really hope that crossplay is still in the cards. I've literally bought 2 Xbox series S for my Pops and Brother-in-law simply because I want them to play BG3. I've really been holding out on buying myself a console, as I really can't justify it considering the PC I have, and my wife and I both play on PC. I'd really just love to be able to play with my wife, Pops, and BiL together in a campaign. I've been waiting so long for that.
Should I just give up the thought that it's still coming? I know Larian has mentioned it in passing it seems, but it really doesn't seem like it's something still in the works. I hope I'm wrong.