You understand just nothing, it is not the empathy with what is in the game, but empathy with the Player and the victims of abuse I was talking about in REALLIFE.
Then the game also lacks empathy for the relatives of murder victims, people with religious trauma, victims of sexual trafficking (Astarion's story), victims of incest (Orin, Sarevok and her mom) victims of grooming (Gale), etc etc. Players can be triggered and hurt by plenty, and I mean plenty of things, we can't dictate stories based on that parameter. I have very serious triggers that appear in this game and I would never try to blame the writers for it, that's my own burden to deal with.
Btw, not cool to assume you're not talking to a victim of abuse.