Since I mentioned Haarlep earlier... I just remembered that if you go through with the whole ordeal with him, AA is actually sorry for Tav and feels bad about their bodily autonomy being violated. But now, when the abuse comes from him it's fine.
I did this on my first playthrough and you do get a really caring comment from AAstarion later when you go through the streets of Baldur's gate. If i remember correctly he says something like "Gods, though I've become untouchable my precious treasure is violated still" And Tav can say they hope Harleep gets bored after a while, Astarion responds "I can't imagine getting bored of all that myself" while Tav looks slyly back at him. He then adds "I know what's done is done, but I'm sorry all the same." with the saddest face. It is such a good interaction and almost made the Harleep scene worth going through. And for the most badass reply you can give to Raphael when he confronts you, it had me chuckling for days after.
