Being a lesbian just means that you don't care how queer men are dehumanized by the story,
You might want to rethink this phrase if you have a sliver of decency.
Honestly i did read already some concerning takes on AA, that i fear those people (maybe too young?) might easily fall in an abusive relationship dangerously easy. It is meant as a cautionary tale and people keep doubling down on Larian changing him when they just emphatised what already was crystal clear. Ascending is his villain origin story, no more, no less. A warning that anyone (lgtbq OR NOT, godsdammit) with the glass full, might go dark with a bit of encouragement.
