I'll give you a good example of how a toxic person / troll behaves, it just happened to me: One person spammed under every comment, summarized something like: "AA is an abuser, he's bad, he can't feel love, It's your own fault.“ I asked her (summarized):“ It doesn't matter whether you believe Astarion can feel love or not, it's about the players feeling bad and sick when they suddenly face sexual abuse in their romance implemented in a Valentine's patch. Can‘t you feel some empathy for other women?“ Her answer: „Astarion is an abuser.. blabla.. abuser..blabla.. abuser.. you get what you deserve. No, I don't sympathize. “ My answer: „ >No, I don't sympathize. <-Okay. That's a statement.“ Her answer (I just summarize her long spam texts): „Because Astarion is an abuser.. you get what you deserve. You are not hurt, you are just mad, your sex fantasy wasn't what the character actually was.“ (You can imagine I laughed out so hard about this. )
If this is about me, which I suspect but am not really sure because your summary has nothing to do with what I said, it is incredibly misconstrued. Btw, I'm not a "her", and not trying to "troll" or "be abusive". Not everyone who disagrees is trying to troll. I don't want to get into more fights at all but making up what happened irks me and it well, makes me want to defend myself. I haven't posted on this thread for a few days now to respect that my opinion might be considered irrelevant to the discussion being had here. Please just keep me out of it, then.
EDIT: I am now seeing after Zayir's reply that I probably overreacted and made a fool of myself because I panicked a bit at the possibility of my words/my person being misrepresented since we had a vaguely similar discussion here (evidently I don't want people to think that I said "you are not hurt, you are mad" and the like). My bad. I shouldn't have assumed it was about me even if it was said on the thread where we had an argument.