Thank you for posting the results! It's pretty clear the majority is unhappy with the changes that remove roleplay options and that the main issue is Tav's facial expressions (and body language).

One thing that worries me is that so many want the kisses to be dependent on the romance scene, which is a very unique, one time thing moment that results in Tav's off-screen death. It's possible to roleplay that Tav is nervous about dying and asks Astarion to be gentle because of it, but they might be totally fine with rough play and prefer it in every other circumstance. Likewise, they might want to feel pain in that moment because they're pumped after Astarion's ascension, but then decide they prefer the gentle approach later. Tav may also want to kiss differently depending on their mood and the current atmosphere of the moment they are in in the story. If they decide to make two variations I'd rather we were able to choose between them when asking about the relationship.