I'm so sorry you were harrassed. You don't have to worry about that here because the mods are pretty awesome.
If you can use mods, there are plenty of nice face models out there now, and they won't break your game.
And I definitely would rather use what came with the game, but I find that none of the female ones are to my likeing. I think one half-elf male head is very cute, but I don't play male characters.
