now Lae'zel is okay to be in a relationship with a mindflayer. No one asked for this and her fans agree that this is a complete OOC
That's utterly ridiculous. The only thing Lae'zel should be doing with a mindflayer is killing it, and only just managing to refrain from such an action because its Tav/Durge. Completely breaks all known Githyanki/Githzerai lore.
So Lae'zel changes break DnD lore Minthara from what I can gather, and the vid the posted on discord, now leaves you if you take the good Durge route because you refused Bhaals power Ascended Astarion turns into a sexual abuser (apparently overnight) but has amnesia at all times it hits and is immediately himself again after his little episodes.