I really really feel for you, my marriage was somewhat similar and that's why I also got triggered so badly. My ex husband was also an alcoholic drug user and extremely violent, he often grabbed my throat like that but also far worse, he gave me a brain injury for life and I suffer from ptsd and nightmares every single day even though it's been 15 years since I divorced him.
What triggered me so badly about the AA scene was that I wasn't really warned, it wasn't an add on as I thought, as I was lead on to believe with the upcoming Valentine pack, no, it was directly replacing the in game scenes which I had purchased the game with when it was released, no where had it been stated that the game was still in early access and that it could still be hugely changed and replaced, that might had made me wait for the game to be completed before purchasing it, I feel mislead.
